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I haven’t really been able to find a steelman of the argument that her lack of treatment and/or the state prosecuting her is misogynistic.

For the point that her lack of treatment is a symptom of misogyny, I can try. Here's her treatment timeline for the two months before the murders:

  • Nov. 29, 2022: Clancy began seeing Rebecca Jollotta, a nurse practitioner and colleague of Julie Paul. Jollotta prescribed Clancy quetiapine fumarate, also known as Seroquel, the following day. The lawsuit papers said Clancy's "condition deteriorated rapidly after taking Seroquel."
  • Dec. 1, 2022: Clancy reported she was having "intrusive thoughts of harming herself and of harming her children," to Tufts, the lawsuit papers said. Tufts noted she and Clancy discussed that Clancy could have undiagnosed bipolar disorder.
  • Dec. 2, 2022: Clancy reported to Latiesha Dukes, from whom she had been receiving therapy, that she had become addicted to Ativan and that was why she couldn't sleep, the lawsuit papers said. She also reported having suicidal ideation and intrusive thoughts.
  • Dec. 5, 2022: Clancy told Dukes she had contacted ASPIRE Crisis support, an emergency service for people at risk of self-harm, the previous weekend, papers in the lawsuit said.
  • Dec. 6, 2022: During a virtual appointment with Jollotta also attended by Patrick Clancy, Lindsay Clancy reported her mind constantly was running and she was only sleeping three hours per night, the lawsuit papers said. She denied having thoughts of hurting herself or her children, but expressed that she was "afraid as if something awful might happen" almost every day, the papers said.
  • December 2022: After that appointment, Clancy admitted herself to a day program for postpartum depression at Women & Infants Hospital. She reported on admission that she was "numb to all emotion," the lawsuit papers said. The hospital determined Clancy's issues were "more likely related to overmedication and misdiagnosis," the papers said, and that the program wasn't appropriate for her.
  • Jan. 1, 2023: Clancy admitted herself to McLean Hospital, a psychiatric hospital.
  • Jan. 5, 2023: Clancy was discharged from McLean. Over the following weeks, she met with Tufts for 17-minute sessions, during which she "reported becoming desperate and that she was not bonding well with her baby," the lawsuit papers said. The court papers said Clancy also informed Tufts she was "suicidal and homicidal as to her children."
  • Jan. 23, 2023: Clancy last saw Tufts.
  • Jan. 24, 2023: Clancy is accused of strangling her three children in the family's Massachusetts home and attempted to take her own life.

That looks as though multiple professionals ignored her reports of disordered/violent thoughts, and multiple institutions thwarted her active attempts to protect the lives of her children by getting herself safely into daily care before anything happened. Surely it's fair to ask for an explanation: why?

Once that question is asked, there are neutral answers available, sure. Just a black-swan series of incompetent clinicians. Under-resourced services in general. But it does seem to a casual observer as though more resources and awareness of PPD/PPP might have, for instance, ensured that her therapist had more than one quick module of training on what to expect from the condition. Or ensured that there existed an inpatient or day program with enough spots to be able to accept her when she was seeking treatment.

Then, at the same time, there's also the other side of the discourse that you can see right out in the open here, full of men arguing effectively that minimal PPD awareness/sympathy/resources is a good thing actually: because postpartum depression isn't real and doesn't deserve support, that it can only happen right after birth, that moms reporting it are just lazy or whiny, that it shows all women are inherently unstable and deserve to be listened to less (so anyone uncertain if she's in the prodromal phase of PPD/PPP had better not report it, or she's agreeing to deserve permanent chattel status).

This alongside the parallel discourse, also loud and proud on TheMotte, of men saying that in all justice the life of a woman should be to bear as many children as possible in quick succession, then look after them 24/7, while being the material provider (read: office-job attendance, open evenings, intact body, full nights of sleep) is the maximum expected from a husband.

It's clearly fallacious to conclude that just because a group apparently regards you with contempt and wishes you harm, therefore instances of harm or contempt toward you must be the fault of the group. But it is... a very common and tempting fallacy. The last mass shooting, IIRC, we had a guy on here claiming this was because people callously ignore the plight of incels. In another recent CW thread somebody was arguing that feminism in publishing was probably the reason boys don't read.

Maybe it's not a perfect steelman, but is it all that unsympathetic, as the kind of leap of logic people do sometimes make?

This alongside the parallel discourse, also loud and proud on TheMotte, of men saying that in all justice the life of a woman should be to bear as many children as possible in quick succession, then look after them 24/7, while being the material provider (read: office-job attendance, open evenings, intact body, full nights of sleep) is the maximum expected from a husband.

I just want to flag a few things:

  1. If your wife is having kids nonstop, you aren't going to be having the full nights of sleep unless you are a literally absent father (as in, in a different house) and you aren't going to be having open evenings either (at least not all of the time) unless you are a figuratively absent father (as in, tuning out after dinner and refusing to help with the kids at all).
  2. Guys are more likely to have their intact body become not that way on the job compared to women – however the rates are pretty low.
  3. Notwithstanding the above, taking care of kids nonstop is hard work and while I suspect women are at least marginally better suited to it than men (and men likewise at least marginally better suited to e.g. office jobs than women) I think it's at least in some ways "harder work" than a 9 - 5, at least when you are dealing with multiple children, of which at least one an infant or toddler. Having "as many children as possible in quick succession" means that this is pretty much always the case.

I don't think the Motte's trad/pronatal corner is (generally) calling for exactly what you are suggesting (in part because many of them actually have kids and spouses that they actually like) and are aware both that women should not be treated as child production facilities and that in functional households the man bears part of the burden of parenting, just the same as the woman. (But if you are reading Terracotta's post and thinking "heck yes, that's exactly how things should be, you forgot the gigachad image" then, well, I think you are wrong.)

For the point that her lack of treatment is a symptom of misogyny, I can try.

  • Rebecca Jollotta
  • Julie Paul
  • (Jennifer) Tufts
  • Latiesha Dukes

...that's a curious case of misogyny...

...that's a curious case of misogyny.

If the causal model is not "doctor is mustache-twirling villain" but rather "misogyny--> vague institutional belief that since PPD/ PPP happens to moms, it isn't important/isn't real/ isn't sympathetic/ doesn't merit help--> minimal PPD training for clinicians, inadequate funding for programs--> PPP sufferer seeking help encounters only undertrained clinicians and rejections from overburdened programs," then I don't think the gender of the clinician enters much into it.

For a parallel case, in the feminism-in-publishing debate I similarly highlighted a whole bunch of male authors and male publishing execs, but it was rightly pointed out that ideology can exert structural influence at the level of funding, training, hiring, project prioritization, etc., even if you don't see direct malicious action by individuals.

Isn't misoginy actual no-shit hatred of women rather than vague institutional bias? Isn't lived experience suppose to enter the equation here somewhere, and even if they had "poor training", given the amount of TikToks with moms mock-strangling their children, wouldn't one of these women go "oh yeah, I totally went through that" on chance alone? Or are they all childless?

For a parallel case, in the feminism-in-publishing debate I similarly highlighted a whole bunch of male authors and male publishing execs, but it was rightly pointed out that ideology can exert structural influence at the level of funding, training, hiring, project prioritization, etc., even if you don't see direct malicious action by individuals.

And what did you think of that argument?

And what did you think of that argument?

I... thought it was a reasonable-enough counter to "but but but male authors"? (Although I still believe the wider claim fails for various unrelated reasons, most obviously the fact that girls' reading has declined in exact parallel with boys'.) And I was surprised and impressed to see that level of nuanced critical thinking around this issue, and I believe I said so at the time.

Isn't lived experience suppose to enter the equation here somewhere, and even if they had "poor training", given the amount of TikToks with moms mock-strangling their children, wouldn't one of these women go "oh yeah, I totally went through that" on chance alone? Or are they all childless?

I'm not 100% following, but I don't think there's any claim that clinicians didn't recognize she had PPD, just that the risk assessments were perfunctory/ wrong, the level of clinical interest tepid, the treatments actively harmful, and the support that could have saved her children (like the inpatient or day programs she sought) too under-resourced to be available to her.

All of which imho feeds into a steel-mannable (though certainly not airtight) case that overall dismissive attitudes toward a female-only condition, leading to institutional under-resourcing and deprioritization of research/ training, were contributing factors in this case: a case about second- and third-order consequences, not first-order. A case that, once again, I am not necessarily endorsing, just steelmanning because that was the explicit request that opened this conversation.

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