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Culture War Roundup for the week of August 31, 2026

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and the police will arrest women for them anyway

Well, I have to deal with that possibility when I take certain actions to save my life. Why should women be exempt?

(You usually only get a couple of seconds to make the decision whether you'd chance being judged by 12 or carried by 6. When you take the perspective the State does, where all life belongs to the State, self-defense is the exact equivalent to an abortion.)

The prevailing theory amongst the concerned is that those carve-outs are fake

So exactly like they can be at times if in a Blue state and the human being deleted was of their favored demographic, then.

And no. From a symmetrical viewpoint, Red's favored demographic isn't "babies". They simply prioritize the value of life that's more of an inherent threat/liability to the opposite gender. For Blue, they trade off potential increased death for men as the cost of "[non-white] bodies"; for Red, they trade off potential increased death for women as the cost of "baby bodies".

(Thinking babies are somehow sacred here will prevent you from fully understanding this- men/Red reveal this preference, women/Blue don't. If you want to be fair, you must put that moral revulsion aside; if you want to understand women/Blue, you must re-assign sacredness to their demographics instead. You don't get to change this; it's just how it works.)


Progressives have a saying that "when you're privileged, equality feels like oppression". I can't say I disagree.

"False accusations [that result in criminal conviction] are incredibly rare." would also seem like a good analogy here.

But that would require trusting institutions and power structures to be fair.

Which the side in power can't do, and the side not in power needs to cherry-pick hard enough against the institutions so they can get over the hump and take power.

Which results in them being bound in the same way. The fair people are always bouncing between the two sides/playing them against each other for this reason.

(In the same way, little kids who want maximum ability to do whatever happens to interest them [in relative innocence] will always pit Mom against Dad. Mom can be moderated with the dignity/Dad arguments, Dad can be moderated with the safety/Mom arguments. It's not that complicated, never has been- assuming equality, all humans are "assigned" to the Mom or Dad bias- it just never fit some of us all that well.)

Mom can be moderated with the dignity/Dad arguments, Dad can be moderated with the safety/Mom arguments.

What are these?