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Women need to co-operate with men for this one to actually fix the problem about which they complain. Right now they're just bitching to bitch.
Women would like peace in Palestine because they value peace over war. And fine. Peace is good. But women don't make war[1], so how much are they willing to pay for it?
Normally, women will give up some of what they want- a society that honors exclusively them and not men, and imposes their fundamental desires of safety, equality, and consent- so that men will go and accomplish some of their other goals. Men will risk their lives if it comes with some benefit beyond that which women currently permit them in society, like "allowed to own a house" [and/or a bunch of ludicrously expensive things most people spend their lives working for and never get, which attract women by proxy], "free pass to the upper-middle class" (would need some updating, college degrees are dime-a-dozen these days), "lots of sex and being considered a hero forever [re: 'I love a man in uniform' and 'thank you for your service']", etc.
But right now they are not willing to pay what it costs for men to go to war to enforce that goal (and make token efforts instead; like "impose sanctions", "excommunicate Israeli politicians and prosecute them in religious court[2]", "Queers for Palestine" [which is the same thing- an instinctual attempt to provide social cachet to the men who want Israel checked by conflating Palestinians with themselves -> implying those who defend them will be rewarded in the above ways, and if they actually had bodies that were more attractive than the average PornHub woman they might have a point], etc.).
If they actually wanted to pay this cost, much as Britain and France once did (to spread their cultural values throughout the world), they'd arm an expeditionary force and send them in (much like Ukrainian ethnic groups currently do for their allies) with those rewards bestowed upon return.
But they don't want that. They want to crybully (which does give them some control to the extent powerful men are willing to listen to it) and otherwise run the "poor me" routine typical of little girls. They no longer want a set of men who are attractive to them because they met the goals women/the culture set. And young women could spend their current power to incentivize the creation of men attractive to them, but they do not.
The Clancy case is the exact same on a much smaller scale- society's civil war against one woman. If young women wanted justice (in a way that's fair to men, meaning "women [who kill their children] are punished for that evil action" [this harms mostly men, as the authority to produce children is something men inherently lack]), they'd start calling for her head and eventually they'd get it.
They're willing to throw loads of money around to get this done, as the GoFundMe pages prove; a man who did this would result in a million dollars paid to his family at the cost of rolling the dice with his life in front of a jury.
But they don't, and they won't do this themselves (again, because of [1]), so the evil persists.
[1] Outside of very specific circumstances where losing means inescapable genocide; WW2 Russia, Israel (all the time), Palestine (also all the time, but abstract as their military and soldiers are all irregular).
[2] The ICC is basically just the Inquisition, meant to legitimize how righteous Europeans are in killing the losers of wars Europe has some stake in. (Which is the purpose for which it was created in '45, to legitimize killing rival elites from the defeated German state.)
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