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Small-Scale Question Sunday for September 20, 2026

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Not GLP1 but a friend of mine on HRT has turned, in his fifties, into a horndog and is leaving/divorcing his wife to presumably chase tail with abandon, as well as becoming a gym rat. His kids are grown(ish). I cannot say with certainty that the testosterone is causing this but I have my suspicions that it isn't not causing it. I don't think realistically the 50s is still 'midlife' but it could have to do with the not untypical older guy collapse.

Is he trans? Sounds like the "second puberty" thing I read about on social media.

Ha. No he isn't. I'm not sure how that would even work given my description of older male now chasing girls the way an 18 year old would. Part of me wants to read your comment as trolling but to respond sincerely no, he isn't trans.

I presume you meant to say TRT? HRT is to fix female problems.

Men that want to be more womanly go on HRT, e.g. trans.

Men that want to be more manly go on TRT.

I was using the term as Hormone Replacement Therapy, where the hormone involved is testosterone. I wasn't aware the terms were so distinct.

They aren't.

Thank you for your diligence

Testosterone is a hormone. Even Wikipedia files non-transgender applications under the main "hormone replacement therapy" page, and relegates transgender applications to a separate "gender-affirming hormone therapy" page.

There's a joke in bodybuilding that if you're not worried your wife is cheating on you, while you're cheating on your wife, you aren't taking enough Tren.

I don't know if that's a common story from a 50something guy doing HRT, but it's not an uncommon story.

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