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While sus it's not incompatible with consent and active engagement from the lady, some people in college (especially when high or drunk) just go for that kind of stuff, both as the deliverer and receiver.
Think about girls gone wild and old school campus porn videos. Some people are into this even if it sounds alien.
I genuinely don't believe Girls Gone Wild has been possible to make for at least a decade.
For one thing, I still remember the news cycle about how the creator of Girls Gone Wild fled the country amid a constant stream of accusations from women who regretted appearing in the videos. For another, it only takes one 17.9-year-old with a fake ID to turn everyone who watches the video into a felony sex-offender pedophile.
Probably the closest modern equivalent would be when an OnlyFans star personally organizes, promotes, films, and publicizes an event over the course of multiple weeks, because that's how far they need to go before it's plausible to believe they consented. It is nowhere near good enough to simply appear to be consenting and actively engaging on the day! History abounds with stories of women who were forced by their abusers to generate mountains of convincing-looking but false evidence that they consented to a sexual act during and immediately following its commission.
I'm not saying it's wise I'm saying people are down, and they are still down it just becomes riskier for a variety of reasons (including videos on the internet).
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