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It's good toxoplasm of rage stuff and ultimately not that interesting to me. It will probably go nowhere because apparently most of the men weren't white. I expect lots of stupid stuff in the mean time. It's all so tiresome, etc...
But I just want to share this story that I saw on X because it's too good. It appears to be true.
Apparently, in 2014 at Washington State University, there was actually a case of this happening with the roles reversed. A female and male student got drunk and had sex. He was more drunk than she was. His friends were worried about him because she was short and very fat. Apparently the friends even went to check on him. He said he got uncomfortable and tried to leave but she tried to keep him from leaving. But he also apparently at one point left to get a condom and came back. Afterwards, he filed a complaint against her. The school ruled that she had violated the code of conduct and expelled her, because obviously he wouldn't want to fuck someone so ugly.
So, see guys, it's not just a cudgel to use against men. 0.001% of the time it's also used against women!
If true, rare act of basedness from a university kangaroo court.
The Court rules that the Defendant is a WOULDN’T. Thus, based upon the preponderance of evidence, it finds her guilty of the complaint alleged by the Plaintiff.
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