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I recently finished the book Fathers and Sons and found myself amused by the way Turgenev described three different young ladies (each quote taken from a different part of the story):
For being three different characters, these sure are all the same character. Clearly Turgenev had a type. (An archetype!) But it's probably also the type that many (most?) guys have. And in 19th-century literature, characters could just exist as that archetype without needing to justify it.
Whereas in the context of modern media — post-postmodernist but still poisoned by the subversions of postmodernism — it seems like the archetype can't exist without justifying it somehow. When I see quotes like this:
…I'm strongly suspicious of whether that's actually the reasons why the character is appealing vs being the necessary rationalization baggage for the modern reader, so that they can accept the character as "realistic". And it seems like the necessary rationalizations are getting ever more elaborate, where now you need to borrow a whole media franchise's backstory and then additionally rewrite a good chunk of its content further.
All this is to say: Turgenev comes across as quite horny, but his writings are still probably healthier to consume than whatever the internet is doing.
What's the archetype here, the young coquette who machine-learned that a certain kind of awkwardness that comes naturally gets her male attention? That would be fair enough for the Turgenev paragraphs, but I don't really see it in the female Malfoy samples, unless you want to lump together any and all forms of non-self-aware romantic behaviour (I think even saying "affection" here would be reading too much into Turgenev as quoted).
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