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Culture War Roundup for the week of March 6, 2023

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Perhaps the optimum would be one where everyone could freely choose for themselves, and while most people would naturally occupy the gender roles the correspond to their birth, there wouldn't be any stigma or disgust associated with people who (for whatever reason) do not. But...that just sounds a lot to me like trans acceptance, no?

No? Trans acceptance requires that I adjust my worldview, and start seeing trans women as literally women, and clap with approval as biological males enter women's sports, prisons, domestic abuse shelters, etc.

If you want to advocate for an alternative form of trans acceptance where this is not required, then you're basically joining the club I'm already in. Welcome, fellow transphobe.

There used to be a futurist transhumanism strain here that was more optimistic and trans-positive that has either been driven off or converted to conservative trad thinking, which is a shame.

There used to be a strain of people arguing their points here, rather then going "people don't agree with me anymore, that's a shame".

More seriously - sure, I'll confess to turning my back on futurist transhumanism. If you think that means I endorsed "conservative thinking", so be it, though I think slapping broad political labels when discussing specific issues is a bit disingenuous.

And even if I switch back to my old futurist-transhumanist mode, how exactly does that make any of the problems with transition go away? We simply do not currently have the technology to change sex. Why am I required to ignore that fact?