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Culture War Roundup for the week of March 6, 2023

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An unanswered question is very weak evidence of someone doing so because they're uncomfortably challenged because there's plenty of innocent explanations for why someone wouldn't respond (e.g. touch grass, etc.). The context of what I was responding to here is an instance of someone having the time and nevertheless acrobatically evading the question. This scenario is strong evidence of my assertion.

Either dodging questions and other forms of rhetorical acrobatics are proof your worldview has been challenged to an uncomfortable degree or there are plenty of innocent explanations for why someone wouldn't respond directly in an argument. In my opinion it is a crazy assumption, especially on a forum, and especially for you. I smudged the lines a bit but I think you can see what I mean.

Sure, I said I'm open to innocent explanations. I don't know what the innocent explanation to someone choosing to devote the time to responding, but instead of addressing an uncomfortable question, they pull a "look over there!" move

Each of those links you had the opportunity to engage with the content of the posts and redirected instead. Why did you do that? Because your worldview was challenged to an uncomfortable degree?

I asked clarifying questions because the posts were quite ambiguous. Understanding the specific point being made allows me to better engage with the direct content.