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Culture War Roundup for the week of March 6, 2023

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I don't follow this logic at all. Why would I be obliged to enjoy gay sex if I supported gay rights? It's not a question of taste: I don't think pineapple on pizza is unethical because I don't like it. I wouldn't seek to criminalize things that are simply not my preference. The hypocrisy would be to deny others the right to marry the people (i.e., consenting adults) they love, when I already enjoy that ability.

The crux is that you get meat by killing a sentient, emotionally complex, intelligent animal. I think that if you can't bring yourself to do that (and have to rely on the emotional distance of someone else doing the dirty work), then yeah, I don't reckon you should eat meat, because industrial meat processing takes that one bloody act and multiplies it billions of times yearly. We all have our hypocrisies and have to pick where to draw the extent of which we tolerate them, so I think if you can't stomach the very simple act the meat industry is built upon, you shouldn't seek to benefit from its utterly horrific economies of scale.

I think that if you can't bring yourself to do that (and have to rely on the emotional distance of someone else doing the dirty work), then ...

That's the same scenario I described for gay sex, except without the boo light "dirty work". You can't bring yourself to watch (or participate in) gay sex. But if someone else does it in private, the emotional distance allows you to tolerate it. Is your tolerance hypocritical?

Or do you think that no significant number of people have visceral, negative, emotional reactions to gay sex?