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Make her mom friends, give her the commitment she craves, her 'maybe' which isn't a no will turn into a yes. Isn't this the girl that doesn't want to use birth control? Sometimes in unprotected sex these things just happen.
I’ve known her parents since we were kids. Not extremely well since she’s 7 years younger than me, but we’d see each other all the time growing up and we’d hung out before. She would tail my friend group when we were in the same area and out doing things. Her birthday was this September; and I took her to the beach and planned things for her for the whole day, from morning until night. Like I said my friend group was older than hers so they all have known me but didn’t know me very well, and one of the last times we hung out, my hometown was having a Church related event we went to and had fun with, and I’ve also had dinner since then with her mother (who does remember me) and her step father (who doesn’t remember me very much). We plan to spend more time together though. I’ll definitely consider your input.
When I said 'make her mom friends' I didn't mean make friends with her mother, to be clear. I meant 'make sure she has friends who are moms'.
Ah. Good point. Yeah, she has a few of those too, but I don’t know them. Most of her friends are unmarried but in relationships. Like I said our peer groups are proximate to each other so there’s overlap. Last baby shower I was at, some of her friends were in attendance for my cousin’s new son and I still know them, albeit distantly.
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