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Which is why I now argue for approaches that glorify the same sex when it addresses the methods of terrorism common to that sex (and condemn the same sex when it fails to be perceived to do its utmost).
Right now, that's beginning to happen for mass shootings; more men carry guns, so more men can step in (indeed, even if they are not armed, they're more willing to do this now than they used to be).
Fantasies on both sides for "if a mass shooter came in, I'd stop them even if it might mean death" and "if I knew of a sexual predator, I'd expose them even if it might mean rape" already exist.
Indeed, I submit that men doing the pedo-hunting thing are actually highly destructive specifically because it's not in their gender role to address it.
Speculation: it's transgender behavior, and I think it explains the (very over-simplified) meme of why so many male 'pedo-hunters' (and the Chris Hansen cosplayers are almost always male) seem to be so predisposed to molestation themselves: they're either trying to atone for that fact, or they are doing it because they want to exercise the kind of power over another man that is 'reserved' for women. [And naturally, they target outlaws, just as any other kind of thief would: no recourse.]
Going full Nazi and murdering a bunch of children "because that's just the way we do things, fuck you" is very popular among both women and men.
(Actually, the Gaza thing's a great microcosm of that- women are more Jew-hating than Hitler, and men are more genocidal than Hitler. A society in full cooperation would have sent an expeditionary force, like the US did back in the early '90s to the Balkans. A society in full defection cannot.)
The upshot is that for a society to function at all, men and women can't ever be seen to be doing this.
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