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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 9, 2026

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I think what the US needs is a grand bargain between the two sides on immigration: one big amnesty for those already there, obviously excluding criminals, etc., and to then start actually enforcing the law.

I give you: everything you want on the issue

You give me: you promise to follow the law, which you have already promised to do, and which already gives me everything I want on the issue

Wow great, what a deal, sign me up

I do feel it is unfair that people who've lived in the US for years or decades under the understanding that the law will not be enforced have had the rug pulled out from under them. No, you can't just say "but it's the law!". Imagine a teenager smokes some weed on the understanding that the prohibition is not enforced, and then a tough-on-crime district attorney starts enforcing it and suddenly he's spending a year in jail (the maximum sentence) and will never be able to get a good job. People act differently based on how and whether laws are enforced, and suddenly changing that retroactively is unfair.

Oh look, one paragraph later the I am being told that you are just going to ignore the law if you think its unfair.

I give you: everything you want on the issue

You give me: you promise to follow the law, which you have already promised to do, and which already gives me everything I want on the issue

Wow great, what a deal, sign me up

When did the US left promise to enforce immigration law?

Oh look, one paragraph later the I am being told that you are just going to ignore the law if you think its unfair.

The law isn't unfair; what is unfair is suddenly starting to enforce the law after it's been unenforced for decades and people have built their lives around the expectation that it won't be enforced. Enforcing it for new arrivals is entirely fair.

When did the US left promise to enforce immigration law?

That is just the standard assumption for dealing with societies. People are subject to the law, and a law isn't a law if it is not enforced.

What exactly are you trying to argue here?

That if a political faction doesn't explicitly promise to enforce some law it shouldn't have to?

That if a political faction doesn't like the law they can just not enforce the law instead of changing it?

That it is ok to not enforce laws that you don't like?

The law isn't unfair; what is unfair is suddenly starting to enforce the law after it's been unenforced for decades and people have built their lives around the expectation that it won't be enforced. Enforcing it for new arrivals is entirely fair.

We have a process to decide what is and is not fair. We elect representatives, representatives write and pass laws, and then we all agree to be bound by the laws. Do you not agree?

Then why is it fair for your side, the pro immigration side, to just not enforce the law? Why does your side get to selectively enforce the rules? Why do you get to make claims as to what is and isn't fair when you have already ignored what we agreed on?

No one woke up one day and decided to not enforce the law. The law just slowly stopped being enforced over the years, or was never enforced in the first place. As far as I know, this was the case even under W and maybe even previous Republican presidents. Suddenly deciding to start enforcing it after it hadn't been enforced for a long time is a major policy change, and, yes, it is unfair.

No one woke up one day and decided to not enforce the law. The law just slowly stopped being enforced over the years, or was never enforced in the first place. As far as I know, this was the case even under W and maybe even previous Republican presidents.

This is not fair. That it happened over years does not make it fair.

Suddenly deciding to start enforcing it after it hadn't been enforced for a long time is a major policy change, and, yes, it is unfair.

You get to be unfair to me but I don't get to be unfair to you. Nice.

To whom is it unfair? I can see why someone might object to the vast number of illegal immigrants in the US because it is an affront to the rule of law, but whom is their presence actually harming?

You are conflating fairness with harm. If I switch out all of my pawns with queens in our chess game have I harmed you? Is the game fair?

Its unfair to me, as I directly stated, and I have given my reasons as to why. You are asking me to yield to your opinion on fairness, while ignoring and adding qualifiers to what I consider unfair. Why would I do that?

The chess game would be unfair to me, and hence I am harmed in the sense that I am deprived of the enjoyment of the game, which is derived from the fact that both sides have the same starting position and the most skilled person will generally win. I do contend that if something is unfair, it is unfair to someone.

Ok you can contend that, and think what you think, and have the position we should do XY & Z. But I don't agree with you, I want something else. That leaves us at an impasse, because what is going to happen? We can kick him out or keep him, we can't do both.

We solved this problem by collectively agreeing to elect representatives who then write the laws that decide what happens. But it only works if people do what they agreed to do, and trust that the other side will do the same. Consequentially you taking the position that you can do what you think is fair instead of what the law says breaks the system, we are back to our original problem, and now its really hard to solve because your side cannot be trusted to do what they agreed to do.

To argue that "It's the law!" is not the final say is to argue against the rule of law itself. Are you going to do that, argue against the rule of law? No? Then what else is there to say? Either come out and argue against the rule of law explicitly or concede that the law should be followed. But don't sit here and ask for unprincipled exceptions, why would I care?