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Culture War Roundup for the week of March 13, 2023

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I’m glad to hear this worldview works for you, but part of the point @Hoffmeister25 is making in my view is that this can’t and won’t work for most people. At least not in and urban modern context.

To repeat my response down thread, Christianity has clearly failed to adapt to the modern, secular worldview. This has been going on since at least the 18th century if not well before then, but the cracks in the religion of the day have been growing. There’s a reason less people are religious than ever.

And I agree that’s a bad thing! Religion is great for people! But if tradcons just sit in their villages and talk about how great their life is and try to push their outdated worldview nothing will change. You need to innovate and find a way to square your religion with the updated understanding we now have of the natural world.

Honestly, I’m rooting for y’all. I’d like to see a return to spirituality, but it has to be a new spirituality that’s true to our circumstance, not one from two thousand years ago.

@FarNearEverywhere this may be a more put together response than my other one downthread.

If religion is great for people, how is it outdated? Wouldn’t the thing which is great for people be evergreen in its greatness?

If you want a philosophy for encouraging moral behavior in an urbanized, low-trust, secular society, might I suggest Confucianism? I think you're asking something of Christianity that it just wasn't made for. Even Islam might be more theologically amenable to this sort of compromise, having never undergone a separation of church and state.

Right now nothing works for most people. And it's a damn shame.