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Small-Scale Question Sunday for March 19, 2023

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It's a shaky conjecture, in my opinion. While there are definitely men who use the trans movement for their direct benefit (male rapists claiming they are women to get into women's prisons or antisocial schoolboys claiming they are girls to get into girls' bathrooms and showers), they all do this because they have nothing to lose in a total institution and because they can get away with not conforming to their new role.

If you try to pull this kind of non-conformance in a non-total institution ("Would you tell Janice over there she can't use he/his pronouns and remain a woman? Would you tell her she has to wear make-up to remain a woman? Would you tell her she can't have facial hair and remain a woman? Would you tell her she can't change her name to a historically male one and remain a woman? I am also a woman and demand to be treated like one!") you will be outed as a phony by those who are recognized as trans, neither attaining that new "marginalized minority" status nor retaining your "honest white male" status.

Is going on "full trans" really worth it? Would you put on a mask you aren't allowed to take off, a mask that comes with a bunch of hormones you have to pump into your body? Would you do that for an annual raise of $100K? $200K? I sincerely doubt cynical men who are willing to disfigure their bodies and live a life of deception outnumber those who are sincerely dissatisfied with their lives as men and think living as women will make them happier.

Would you put on a mask you aren't allowed to take off, a mask that comes with a bunch of hormones you have to pump into your body? Would you do that for an annual raise of $100K? $200K? I sincerely doubt cynical men who are willing to disfigure their bodies and live a life of deception

You don't have to go on hormones or have surgery if you're operating under self-identification policies.

No, but you have to make a serious effort or you'll get called out for trolling. Most men would love to hang out in the women's showers at a gym, but most men wouldn't just walk in there as-is and say it's okay because they're actually trans or non-binary or whatever. Chances are the gym is just going to kick you out and only relent after some rights group makes a stink about it, which isn't going to happen unless you can convince them that you're legitimate. If you're willing to put in the work, yeah, you can get the status, but it's not something that can be held casually. You're name is going to be in the news and the community will view you as a member of the LGBT community because why the hell else would an LGBT advocacy group be raising a stink about this? For the gym's part, it's a rare enough occurrence that they'll take their chances on kicking out obvious men and issue an apology later and chalk it up to a training issue or whatever. Given the horniness of the average male, the fact that there isn't a total inundation of women's locker rooms by this point is pretty good evidence that it isn't the problem some people, myself included, were concerned about.