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There really needs to be severe criminal penalties for lying about this. If the Jackie Coakleys and Karissa Barrows and Judy Munro-Leighton spent several decades in prison after public trials the chilling effect on complete fabrication would probably eventually result in society that was more likely to #believeallwomen.
Why would we need to do that? We just have to get our ideology in the right hands, and we can accuse anyone we want of anything, and everyone will believe it. This is about speaking Power to Truth, man.
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A trial of peers just like any other criminal punishment?
In the case of Jackie, her story involved being raped stop shards of broken glass so a lack of scaring would be my exhibit A. In the other cases they admitted it:
Presumably we'd investigate their claims and when they turn out to be impossible to have occured the accuser would then face criminal charges under a new criminal statute with the normal criminal trial procedures.
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Every once in a while you get a case where all cards really are on the table. I think there was some college kid who got metooed, the girl accused him of taking advantage of her when she was drunk, but it turned out he recorded the whole interaction, and noped out when he realized she's not sober. Some newspaper was later complaining about him having the recording, implying it was some sting operation.
Sometimes someone accuses a person that ends up having a rock-solid alibi. You can probably assume they were lying, when the person they point at was in another country at the time.
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Via a court case that the women decided they'd rather pay Chris million(s) of dollars in settlement rather than risk.
Although in civil cases "beyond a reasonable doubt" is unnecessary, admittedly.
Yeah, I'd like to see a load of civil cases where the woman who probably lied gets taken to the cleaners.
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