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They even showed it in years past with a permission slip and just forgot to send out the slip this year. It's a paperwork mishap elevated to a firing offense because of the ongoing culture war over parental rights.
failing to get permission to show potentially sexual content to other people's children isn't merely a "paperwork mishap" and trying to downplay it to that characterization looks like agenda
it doesn't bother you; trying to claim it's not doing anything "untoward" is therefore built on top of the fact you see nothing to be concerned about in the first place
no matter how many times you retype that claim, it doesn't make it true
why would a teacher choose to show penises to other people's children? there are any number of other art works including cropped pictures of David which do not show penises to other people's children
If the penis is incidental, you could show some other Official Work of High Art or could manipulate the image of David to not show the penis and avoid the issue altogether. Instead, the teacher insisted the "incidental penis" was shown for a purpose making the incidental penis not incidental at all.
why does a teacher have a need to show other people's children penises and why do you need to defend such behavior?
I am making it weird because I think someone needs to answer all sorts of hard questions when it comes to The Tough Question of how to deal with children and believe parents are by-and-large the best choice to make that determination. This means wide leeway about topics in which there is disagreement. I don't care about nudity generally, but I can see why some parents would especially in the current context of rampant ideological grooming (at best) in schools and various tactics used to hide that from parents and undermine their authority vis-a-vis their children.
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