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Great list. Also:
Men compose the majority of the homeless -> homelessness is a women’s issue
Male journalists are more often killed than female journalists -> STOP TARGETING WOMEN JOURNALISTS
Working husbands tend to die earlier than their stay-at-home wives -> Suddenly these poor widows have to perform the uncompensated physical and emotional labor of managing a bunch of boring bank, brokerage, and retirement accounts that their stupid husbands left behind
I once got into an argument with a feminist, and when I brought up the homelessness thing, she countered that female homelessness tends to be less "visible" as it more often takes the form of couchsurfing than actual rough sleeping.
In other words: if you're a woman and you become homeless, friends and family will let you stay with them temporarily. If you're a man, you're on your own.
Amazing. The kind of argument that a PCM orange Emily could better conjure than I ever could for satirical purposes.
If you managed a straight face, you deserve an Emmy or Oscar.
It's like inadvertent horse-shoeing with the manosphere, dirtbag left, or dissident right. Women have automatic Wonderfulness, social value, and social legitimacy, so there is a floor as to how bad things can get for women relative to men on average.
Directionally, being a man comes with a high risk/ high reward profile.
To make things more fair, feminist societies decided to give women the same rewards with none of the risks.
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