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Culture War Roundup for the week of June 5, 2023

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I'd like you guys to refrain from responding to this message (the one you are reading right now) unless you either are someone who holds the beliefs I am trying to engage with, or you can steelman how someone who holds those beliefs would respond to what I'm saying. Expressions of agreement are useless to me here. Thank you. (I have tried to get this discussion going on Twitter, but as one would expect, it hasn't worked.)

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So you, hypothetical person, believe that if a trans child has been on puberty blockers for the maximum of two years, then they should be allowed to switch over to HRT, even if they haven't reached the age of consent. So, for example, if a child starts blockers at age 12, then they should be able to switch over at age 14, even though the age of consent is no lower than 16 anywhere in the United States.

Why should the age of consent for HRT, the "real deal" of transitioning, be lower than the age of consent for sex? If you say that HRT is less harmful for children than sex with an adult, you need to be able to substantiate your claim.

First, HRT is done under the supervision of a medical professional. Medical professionals are gatekeepers for a lot of high-risk things. An MD can prescribe a 14 year old addictive opiate painkillers if they think it's medically appropriate, for example. In that sense, I don't see HRT as "special" compared to other medications that might be prescribed to a teenager by a doctor. Even if we're purely concerned with mental health questions, there are a lot of powerful psychiatric medications that can be prescribed to a minor, and I don't know that they're any less serious consequentially than HRT.

You make a very good point. To this, I counter: if a medical professional and both parents approve of a minor's marriage to an adult, shouldn't that be allowed, just as it's allowed for a minor to take opposite-sex hormones under those circumstances?

(This is not an example of the slippery slope fallacy, because I am attempting to apply meta-level reasoning across the board. The reason for the "groomer" discourse is that conservatives generally see these things as equivalent, while leftists don't.)

First, what professional do you have in mind? Medical doctors are trained in dispensing medicines, so it makes sense that we'd go to them for dispensing of a medicine. I don't know what profession is trained for what you're asking, or what professional standards you'd apply to them? MDs are probably the most tightly regulated profession there is, barring a few unusual ones like nuclear engineers. You say a medical professional, but unlike dispensing a medicine, I don't see why the question of matrimony is a medical one and why a medical doctor would have any particular expertise in it.

I mean, in order for a minor to receive HRT, a psychiatrist has to give approval, right? I don't know how it works, but I assume they ask some kind of pointed questions of both the minor and their parents in order to decide whether the issue they have is more likely to be dysphoria or something else. This power could be given to a psychiatrist, or a psychologist, or a.. yeah, this is a good question. I don't know who it would be.

Then why aren't they trying to ban marriage to minors in the states that allow it?

Wait wait HOLD THE PHONE HERE. skims the Wikipedia article So, uh, is there an exception to statutory rape law for married couples? If so, that's quite disturbing. If not, then the only benefit for the adult would be that they would get their spouse's money.

I believe it varies by state. I think some have exceptions for marriage, some have being married as a defense in a statutory rape case (not sure how that works legally, I'm not a lawyer), and some don't allow sex below the age of consent even if you're married to the person in question.