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Is there any reason to not forgo video games completely? Are they in a category with gummy candy, smoking, and lottery tickets - no benefit of any kind beyond a dopamine release - or more like classic movies, dime novels, and social media - escapism with some degree of social and intellectual benefit?
I’ve enjoyed my two-week trial run of Lex Fridman’s maximally productive daily schedule but do find myself missing my offline career-based sports games. How sturdy is the argument that “not everything has to be productive”? Are books and television and film so far above video games in the usefulness ranking (after all, they can confer knowledge and social benefits, if not maximally condensed) that it’s a no-brainer to stop gaming completely? Or should sedentary leisure as a whole be relegated to “break in case of emergency” status, never part of a daily routine but “around” when more productive options are not available, or only to be used in the company of others?
I’ve wrestled with this for every day of these two weeks and still see benefits of escapism, while simultaneously seeing the futility of time spent achieving nothing in the real world - even if only for an hour or two.
EDIT: I coincidentally just discovered the "End Poem" of Minecraft; a poignant take on this discussion:
I'm inclined to say that games are more like movies and social media, but what I really want to object to is the idea that some candy, smoking, and gambling is to be frowned upon. Yes, moderation is required for the sake of health and wealth, but candy, smoking, and gambling are all quite enjoyable on their own merits and enjoying them in moderation has a salutary effect on my life. There is absolutely nothing I'm trying to accomplish in life that would be improved if I skipped the Mike and Ikes with a movie, cigar in the sun on the weekend, and annual bet on the Bills to win the Super Bowl.
Thinking about the grindset mentality of being "maximally productive", I mostly have a bit of contempt and pity for people suffering from the delusion that more time invested in their marketing career or middle management or writing code will somehow lead to a more fulfilling life. If someone eschews gaming because they want to invest that time in their family, more power to them, but if it's just to keep hustling, I have to ask what the actual goal is.
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