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Culture War Roundup for the week of July 24, 2023

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I agree with the vast majority of this, with the caveat that I don't think it's good to flat-out asserting

There is a clear association between hours spent on these and sexlessness whether or not any scientist has studied it.

without any evidence. (Although I'm sure it's true).

How does the arrest of Andrew Tate affect your thoughts here? Seems to be a belated consequence but a pretty big one.

Tate’s arrest came way too late, and it’s a house arrest right now. If he does go to jail for a long time, I think this would have an effect on reducing imitation of his lifestyle, but it’s hard to say how much. Because I think people recognize that his arrest is partially due to his popularity and that if he weren’t so popular he probably wouldn’t be pursued as he is. And being rich + getting laid for a decade or more and then going to jail is actually a bargain many men will take; it’s essentially the kernel of criminality.

If he does go to jail for a long time, I think this would have an effect on reducing imitation of his lifestyle, but it’s hard to say how much.

Why? Young men with no prospects imitating criminals (and eventually joining them) has been a thing for... like ever.

being rich + getting laid for a decade or more and then going to jail is actually a bargain many men will take; it’s essentially the kernel of criminality.

Hah! You're not wrong :)