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Culture War Roundup for the week of September 11, 2023

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Specifically, the woman who attended a rape crisis centre immediately after the alleged assault (which can be verified)

Can be... but has it?

I'm reminded of the false accusations against Chris Avellone. Part of the accusers story is that Avellone was such a sex pest at Dragon Con 2012, her and several other men and women who had witnessed his behavior had him banned from the event. This should be a part of the story which could be verified. To the best of my knowledge, it never was one way or the other. Just repeated. However, a recording emerged during a podcast where the same accuser was bragging about hooking up with Avellone at Dragon Con 2012, and that she could connect people with him since they were such good friends. So, despite journalist's best efforts to go out of their way to not verify facts which could be verified, it appears the lady herself, on camera, seriously undermined her own story.

I keep trying to read the article, except the archive link doesn't work for me, and the Times link expects me to subscribe. Oh well. Sometimes I think these smear merchants like it better when you physically cannot read anything beyond the headline. Lets them lie easier.

It's a shame you can't read the article, because yes, the accuser handed over her file from the rape crisis centre to the Times.

All the factual claims in the article (except the he said she said stuff obviously) has been verified by the journalists as far as I can tell.