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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 20, 2023

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I am personally entirely content with having my subjective goals and desires be the bedrock on which I build my existence

The problems crop up when someone else wants their subjective goals and desires to be fulfilled, and you are standing in their way. How does society's institutions satisfy you both? If they can't, who wins? That's where we get the Progressive Stack. On what do we base 'this is how we run things so that as a whole we can muddle along'? Great, we've settled the law of gravitational attraction, but how does that apply to deciding if Sparklina-formerly-Bob can now take your stuff because xe is the mostest oppressed and you owe xer, cis scum?

How does society's institutions satisfy you both? If they can't, who wins? That's where we get the Progressive Stack.

That's not the progressive stack that's just society. If some people want abortion outlawed and some people do not, there is no objective answer that will satisfy both, just as with Trans ideology. And the answer is the same, whoever can get more popular and institutional support.

And the answer is the same, whoever can get more popular and institutional support.

Which means the people who are all "abortion is a human right!" have no grounds to complain if their opponents manage to win on that one, and yet they do. People will still fight over principles, no matter how much anyone wants to implement a society of "just lemme have my fun and leave me alone".

Sure, it doesn't stop people complaining or trying to change, but it is how we decide generally.

Classical liberalism seems pretty peachy to me, let people do as they please as wrong as they don't infringe on a narrowly defined set of rights that belongs to everyone else.