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Culture War Roundup for the week of December 4, 2023

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I don’t think it’s difficult to see how and why poking fun at old conservative fogeys this way is rather dishonest.

The old conservative fogey model is the song Wouldn't It Be Nice by the Beach Boys: Young people should want to have sex and not do it, which encourages marriage. A world in which teenagers can have sex and don't want to is as gross a perversion of nature as supposedly switching genders, removing the focused drive that has inspired art and other achievements for millenia.

A world in which men can fuck boys and don’t want to is such a perversion, too. Which is to say not at all. Pederasty and teen sex drive are far from the “focused drive” you’re lionizing.

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A world in which men can fuck boys and don’t want to is such a perversion, too. Which is to say not at all. Pederasty and teen sex drive are far from the “focused drive” you’re lionizing.

I think somewhere deep down in the human subconscious M/F sex is understood as the most essentially (pro-)creative act, mirroring in kind other forms of great human achievement. Any other kind of sex (that carries no risk of impregnation) is anti-creative or a nullification of creativity (sort of like the black nothingness in The Neverending Story).

I don’t buy it.

There are so, so many examples of non-procreative sex lionized in the manner you describe. Ancient Greek practices are the first that come to mind. Conversely, rape does not usually get the same treatment, and rightly so. Do you think that an opportunistic rapist cares about the artistic, generative achievement of his conquest? Or is he more invested in the base stimulus?