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Culture War Roundup for the week of December 4, 2023

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Anyway, most of you have heard of Ayaan Hirsi Ali’s ‘conversion’ if one can call it that, so I won’t dwell too much on the fact that it includes no indicators of actual belief.

As a Catholic/Christian, I don't get to judge the sincerity or not of her conversion. It may be that she is speaking about it publicly in ways to convince non-believers as to why she converted, and the more efficient way to do that is list off secular advantages. How many atheists in the debates of the 2000s were ever convinced by believers giving accounts of mystical experiences?

If she says she believes, I have to take her at her word. I can't see into her heart or mind to judge if she's lying about any of it. And "yeah right she's converted, I don't see any belief there" is a very atheist way to approach the angle of "I can't imagine any reason a non-idiot would convert to believe in crazy fairy stories, so she must be lying about it".

And "yeah right she's converted, I don't see any belief there" is a very atheist way to approach the angle of "I can't imagine any reason a non-idiot would convert to believe in crazy fairy stories, so she must be lying about it".

I am admittedly an atheist that sees this as, "yeah right", but it is absolutely not because of the latter position. I take people's religious beliefs seriously, I like hearing from them about why they hold those beliefs and what it means to them, and I know plenty of non-idiot believers, so I have no need to imagine a reason to convert - they're right there! Sure, the specific tenets of Mormonism really do seem silly to me and it's hard to get beyond that, but I do not doubt the seriousness, intellect, or authenticity of many converts. Ali's conversion seems hollow and lacking in any sort of deep connection to Christianity, it seems like the classic belief in belief and wanting to believe Christianity for pragmatic reasons related to cultural benefits of the religion rather than an actual, earnest belief in the literal truth of the claim that Christ is King, was crucified for our sins, and rose from the dead. I don't know that she's insincere, but the lack of plainly stating that her reason for being Christian is that Christianity is literally true is reason enough to doubt her. I don't think that is an atheist position at all - I know intelligent Christians and they say that the reason they're Christian is because Christianity is true, not that they're Christian because they want it to defeat Islam.