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Culture War Roundup for the week of December 18, 2023

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Just to continue the point from above - Sufism is fantastic. I think it's maybe a bit misleading to stereotype it as the tolerant branch of Islam, though? Sufism is also more like a family. What unites Sufis is the belief that the Qur'an (and often hadith as well) cannot be understood only on a surface reading, but rather true knowledge of God's nature depends on insights that can be obtained from mystical practice and from the tutelage of more experienced spiritual guides. Hidden layers of meaning can be uncovered from this practice and explored.

The problem is that those experienced spiritual guides can vary a lot - Sufism contains many different tariqat, or schools or paths. Some tariqat are rigorously orthodox and conservative. Some are not. Some tariqat, from a non-Sufi perspective, look like outright shirk, and even the more orthodox ones often look a bit 'weird' to non-Sufi eyes.

One result is that Sufis vary a lot, Sufi-sympathetic people in the West often pick only the most congenial-looking paths, and that in practice Sufi communities can be weird, heretical, or even just horrible and unpleasant in an ordinary human way.

This isn't meant to discourage people from looking into Sufism! It's great! But it's helpful, I think, to be aware that it's as broad as looking into 'Christian mysticism' as a general heading. I'm sure we all understand that the category 'Christian mystics' is broad and contains a lot of good and a lot of bad and you have to use your judgement. Sufism is the same.