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Culture War Roundup for the week of December 25, 2023

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I suppose it allows for higher class POC with posh accents to distinguish themselves.

I have been told multiple times that I speak exactly like an English person, said in such a way as to be a complement. I always feel like correcting this with "No, I speak English better than an Englishman" for, to borrow a quote from Pygmalion itself, "The English do not know how to speak their own language, Only foreigners who have been taught to speak it, speak it well" but I always think better of it and just accept the complement.

Also amusing are the times when I interact with locals say they only speak one Language, English, since that is all they ever need (with a hint of their language being so superior that they don't need to know anything else, these people by and large tend to be lower class and less educated too) and I always have a very snarky urge to butt in and correct them with "Actually, you speak precisely zero languages, the doggerel that comes out of your mouth can not, in good conscience, be called English", but again here I always think better of it and move on.

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Look man, this is a vague and general example of "boo outgroup" and it's not directed at anyone in particular here, but this schtick where you repeatedly post about how much you hate white people and Western civilization and rub your hands in glee at the thought of it being conquered is getting old, tired, and obnoxious as hell. Stop trying to edgepost, stop thinking you're a lord sneering at your inferiors. You've been banned before and if you keep this up you will be banned again.