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Culture War Roundup for the week of January 1, 2024

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Liberty is, in a classical conservative mind, the tendency for things to tend towards their proper place and stay there. This is because everything has its telos, its right purpose, inherent to its nature and probably written into the laws of reality itself by God, and going against it just doesn’t lead to flourishing.

To take an example, to cross thread a screw instead of using the right one- it works fine, up until you have to take it out and put it back in again. And that’s because you exceeded the operating parameters; using the correct screw would have saved this. And nearly everything is a lot like that; there is a proper role and purpose for everyone and everything, and going against it may not cause obvious damage upfront, but it will quite quickly.

There was a recent AAQC about high powered career women quitting high powered careers because those careers weren’t making them happy; in a classical conservative society where homemaking and child rearing is acknowledged as the proper role for most women, they wouldn’t have cross threaded themselves, because there would have been friction, albeit probably not actual forbidding- there were female doctors in the 19th century. As a classical conservative today I recognize that some women doctors are probably necessary but most women are happier staying at home, and thus think there should be a fairly low quota for women entering medical school.

Likewise, on this issue, kids shouldn't be looking at porn, and they shouldn’t be using drugs. Obviously some of them will do so anyways, but putting up friction can meaningfully change the calculus so that they tend more towards things kids should be doing.

For other issues, I think it should be illegal to sell cold beer for off premises consumption(people use it for drinking and driving, but it’s trivial to put it in your fridge at home), schools should teach heteronormativity, and the welfare system should be reformed to explicitly favor poor married couples over single motherhood or long term cohabitation.

Likewise, on this issue, kids should be looking at porn, and they shouldn’t be using drugs.

I think you meant "shouldn't be looking at porn" here.

You're correct, I do.