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Small-Scale Question Sunday for January 14, 2024

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Our neighbor's son has (apparently intentionally, because he fixed it for about a week) damaged his muffler and gotten an unusually early job, such that he roars off, waking us up each morning at 4am. Since we are not on good terms with these neighbors in general, we don't have any plausible way to bring it up, other than calling out of the blue or yelling down the street. We can't even reasonably leave a note (no box), or knock on their door (it is way behind their gate). Also, they would be unlikely to care if we did bring it up, because they have shown themselves to be inconsiderate in general, then lie when called on it.

The neighborhood is generally quiet and dark, and we do not want to sleep with earplugs just for this one five minute disturbance.

What should we do? It's starting to mess up my husband's sleep, especially, he's been having increasing trouble getting back to sleep.

Be like the Swiss and complain to the police?

I could try that, though my mental model of the police around here it that they wouldn't do anything unless he was still here when they arrived (and this is as he's leaving, so he wouldn't be). That might be wrong, and I could ask them about it.

My parents have a neighbor who, after people started complaining to the police about him blasting rock music in his yard, now blasts rock music in 15 minute intervals, so it's no longer blasting by the time the police get there. They are especially unhappy because his relative, while staying in the house, shot an elderly neighbor (he did go to prison for this) and threw a flaming item through their window, breaking it and burning their stuff. This is not in a bad part of town. They never received any compensation.