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Culture War Roundup for the week of February 14, 2024

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I never asked for an exhaustive list, I just want some specifics on why the rules are unfair rather than just proclaiming they're unfair for unspecified reasons. Someone who knows their beliefs will crumble when it encounters a stiff breeze of scrutiny has an incentive to make up whatever excuse to keep them safeguarded, so I need some method to discern who has earnest objections and who's just making shit up.

Let's start with "as a trained debater, you have a higher chance of being able to say things with subtle flaws that your opponent cannot resolve in time".

(And if your response is "fine, I'll do X so that's not a problem," that won't work since it isn't an exhaustive list.)

So it's not the rules I proposed that are the problem but rather that my real-time debate skills are apparently too high. If this is a concern to anyone, I'm more than happy to leave the door open to any participant who wants to revisit an exchange if they feel they weren't quick enough on their feet at that particular moment. I'm bending over backwards and showcasing my absolute willingness to accommodate people's concerns however possible.

If this is a concern to anyone, I'm more than happy to

I will repeat from what I just posted:

And if your response is "fine, I'll do X so that's not a problem," that won't work since it isn't an exhaustive list.

An endless list of complaints is consistent with someone making up excuses to avoid having their beliefs scrutinized so I still have no way to determine who's being earnest.

You just said you didn't need an exhaustive list. Does this comment mean you are changing your mind?

To really even things up, would you be willing to suffer some light head trauma?

Just to make things fair here.