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This seems very common in media that isn't good enough to be well liked by either men or women, or where they try to have a basically masculine plot, but with a Mary Sue lead, as though that would appeal to large segments of either sex.
This is the first I've heard of True Detective, Season 4. I generally like Fargo because it's a good mix of detective stuff, characterization, and interesting cinematography and music, along with a tiny bit of fantasy. The TD4 trailer looks like a less interesting Fargo knock off.
Fargo season 5 is actually an excruciating example of this. You've got the ruthless girlboss executive running a debt collection agency who's painted as a villain in the first few episodes but then she totally owns some male, pale, and stale bankers, reevaluates her relationship with her daughter in law, and totally redeems herself. You've got John Hamm as the sheriff who's a total caricature of a right winger. You've got repeated unbearable catchphrases ("you know that a witch hunt is not witches hunting men, right? It's men hunting women to keep them in line"). The main character is (mostly) hyper competent and just about every man in the story is incompetent or a bad guy.
Even on reddit some people come out and say that it's a bit over the top, and others shout them down and call them "triggered magats" or whatever.
However it's still rated better than season 4. I don't remember the details of season 4 but I don't remember disliking it, I don't know why it got panned in reviews.
I think I quit on Fargo midway through season 3. It's a shame because seasons 1 and 2 really were extremely good.
I didn't really like season 3 too much and gave up on season 4, but season 5 was good enough.
I agree with a lot of what sarker said above, but the main variation with the wife in this one was, I think, an acceptable single degree of freedom (and a funny variation given how they've written the wife in Movie/S1/S2). Unlike True Detective Night Country, Fargo S5 worked pretty well just because they did so many of the little things well, even if a few things including sarker's points were grating. It's also not so jarring having the other characters, men, being incompetent since the show was always based on mostly everybody being incompetent for where they've found themselves. There's one episode later on that's almost a total write-off, but it's worth checking out.
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