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SkoomaDentist

The Greater Finnish Empire

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I have always assumed the reason for that not to be trans-curiosity, but the well-known fact that men like visual stimulation. "If I'm going to spend hours staring at a wizard's backside, she might as well be leggy and plump. And if I'm going to have to worry about which amour to play dress-up with, there better be cleavage."

Likewise if you had to actually play female avatars as having typically female behaviors, I'd wager few men would persist at that for very long.

Meanwhile I see artists collectively having a full blown psychotic break about AI, hence indie gaming dev awards banning any and all uses of AI etc.

It's quite revealing comparing the criticisms of AI from programmers vs from artists. From programmers the complaint is "I've tried AI and it sucks at doing X. Why are you trying to force me to use it for X?" when from artists it's "AI is bad because it steals from artists / has no soul / lacks creativity / other vague complaint. Nobody should be allowed to use AI."

So it's always been kind of surreal to me that they became principally associated with femboys and transbians and... programmers??. I've definitely met a few of the Discord creatures that wear these as a mark of identity.

Wait, are you saying that non-femboy / non-trans programmers actually wear thigh high socks instead of just memeing about it?

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I have to ask: How can anyone use that site when it's explicitly been made so user hostile?

Truly, it is a wonder that The Motte is usable at all given the origin of the codebase.

Men, and teens, don't like to share their emotions.

Correction: Men and teens don't like to share their emotions in female-typical and approved way.

Get men together in a suitable context and they will share freely enough emotions but it won't be the same way women stereotypically do so.

you can be sure that any time someone gets loud, aggressive, crazy, or weird, someone will start recording it and uploading it

You say that as if it was a bad thing. Frankly the world would be a getter place if loud, agressive crazy and weird people got immediately slapped (literally or figuratively) but since that doesn't look to be happening, the best we can hope is at least some face negative consequences via such videos.

For a similar example to the body cam discussion, see blind auditions. It's a nice view into the mind of the left - the way blind auditions were pushed, they most likely genuinely thought they would be good. And it's hard to argue that blind auditions aren't the most fair and meritocratic approach, which was a common primary justification.

Didn't blind auditions essentially succeed at what they were meant to do, ie. eliminate gender bias in classical musician auditions?

Exactly. There have been high quality sophisticated comics that have come out of US but Marvel and DC sure as hell aren't those.

Back in 2001 I had a lecturer in the university whose day job was as an engineering R&D department leader at Nokia (a company not exactly known for being "hip" or a hotbed of alternative culture). As an old school goth he naturally had long black hair and dressed in all black, with a suit jacket being his only reconciliatory gesture to corporate dresscode. Absolutely nobody batted an eye at his style.

As another example, Mikko Hyppönen has been a well known computer security researcher / expert / educator for three decades, whose hairstyle has stayed the same at least since 1995. In some ways you could call his entire career a fight against a type of counterculture.

So, yes, long hair absolutely was something you could have in many professional white collar jobs unless you perhaps happened to live in a particularly conservative place. It really was and is more about your overall conduct and presentation than about any particular subculture style attributes. As an extreme example, an acquaitance of mine was a hard core crust punk in the late 2000s. In his free time he was all about sticking it to the man, fighting the police (in a very physical sense), multiple large piercings, tattoos etc. I've also rarely met anyone who's exuded as much polite professionalism as he did in his professional role (with the piercings and all) as a technical documentation specialist for a Fortune 500 company.

Only if you consider 30+ years ago as ”quite recently”.