sleepyegg
4d ago
I think Japan has actually really good service for normal people stuff. Like restaurants and hotels. What countries are better?
sleepyegg
5d ago
Damn, didn't know you were talking about the abuser themselves. Some things just can't be forgiven IMO and there's no point maintaining the relationship especially with the enablers too. Thought the abuse was from an unrelated party kind of situation, not that it would make it much better.
sleepyegg
6d ago
Not to say that being molested isn't traumatic, but elderly don't know how to help process the abuse if they didn't help when they were younger and more mentally capable. It's a past event which can't be un-done, and bringing it up can retraumatize people and stress out the old people who mostly want to believe everything is fine and dandy out of mental self-preservation before they die.
Tire pressure is a quick easy fix though, and within some old guy's expertise. He can't help with the abuse though, that's probably closer to a car transmission full rebuild.
A lot of people don't do emotional and feelings talks, important as they are. It can be due to a lack of cultivated social skills, generational differences, or just apathy. But asking about the 'dry' bullshit is easier and within the basic parental instincts and ability of most people, much of my own elder family included. I don't think it's fair to criticize old people for not doing helpful things that are outside of their ability. They do what they can, and I'm glad for their effort even if it falls short compared to other old people.
Basically, some people are incapable of higher-level talks, and no amount of education or effort is going to change that, especially in old age.
sleepyegg
7d ago
It sounds like you are complaining that the old people in your life are caring too much about your basic material well-being? Steak too juicy, lobster too buttery stuff.
I cook for 3, one is a baby though. I have no natural talent and often make basic mistakes even after cooking for 2 (before baby) for about 10 years. If it was just me my meals would be simpler, and I would probably eat out more because getting groceries, cooking, and cleanup is time consuming.
I prefer to cook simple meats like steaks, pork chops, and chicken thighs with minimal seasoning. Fresh meats do not last long at all before developing off-taste so I restock 2 or 3 times per week. I'll pick up some zucchini, asparagus, or broccoli when I restock meat.
An air fryer with a removeable dishwasher-safe basket is a great time saver in cleaning. It can't replace a good pan sear on meat, but sometimes you just want a lazy quick steak and it can deliver that.
I make ground beef dishes in bulk to freeze in disposable plastic containers, like spaghetti or cream pastas. Ground beef seems to tenderize and taste fine (to me) after reheating from frozen, so it is an ideal protein base for tasty and cheap frozen meals. When there's nothing to cook quickly or I'm too tired to cook, I put a premade frozen meal in the microwave for ~6 minutes and it's ready to eat.
sleepyegg
16d ago
A smart person who can convincingly feign interest can rob a match blind. Happens all the time, and happened to my aunt. Happening right now to my cousin.
My in-laws, now married with 2 kids, had their relationship begin at a rave. I think they went together and got closer from the joint experience, like a date. I'm unsure if an underground house party was involved, but definitely possible based on their mutual friends.
Pretty sure they don't rave anymore and discontinued the recreational drug use now that they have two babies. But the rave or maybe mutiple raves were important to the start of their relationship.
Bars are expensive and high-pressure in my opinion. After the entrance fee of a commercial rave, there's no pressure to consume mind-altering substances, unlike a bar where being dry is a social faux pas and freeloading from the bar owner and bartenders who aren't getting tipped or making money. A rave is more like a normal music concert with a strong tolerance for drugs, like you mentioned.
sleepyegg
19d ago
Seeing as how Iran supposedly tracked Trump's location in Turkey, I'm wondering why ground troops haven't already been sent to enact regime change in Iran. They don't seem likely to forgive and forget unless they can charge massive tolls per barrel.
sleepyegg
19d ago
Can you explain the history behind how a black underclass caused wokeness to develop? There are underclasses all over the world and throughout history yet underclass sympathies usually do not manifest like wokeness. Christian empathy and guilt? Idealism of some sort?
Iranian leaders probably cannot help comparing Trump to Carter, and will likely try to hurt him politically in the same way as revenge. Unlike Carter, Trump's on his second term. Midterms are probably a tempting target so they can cripple Trump legislatively.
The recent news on the Iranian backed Houthis making waves in the Red Sea and destroying oil pipelines seem curiously timed to annoy midterm voters with high oil prices.
I would not be surprised to learn that the IRGC has sworn an oath to destroy Trump even if it meant relying on his political rivals to do the heavy lifting. Carter never killed an Iranian ayatollah and they hated him.
sleepyegg
19d ago
Can Claude write a story for FFT minus the Lucavi Zodiac demons? The political intrigue and backstabbing was the best part of the plot to me, the fantasy demons were honestly a distraction.
sleepyegg
19d ago
In 304 BC, he returned a second time to Greece as liberator, and reinstated the Corinthian League, but his licentiousness and extravagance made the Athenians long for the government of Cassander.[6] Among his outrages was his courtship of a young boy named Democles the Handsome. The youth kept on refusing his attention but one day found himself cornered at the baths. Having no way out and being unable to physically resist his suitor, he took the lid off the hot water cauldron and jumped in. His death was seen as a mark of honor for himself and his country.
Who is Democles the Handsome in our timeline? I had no idea Trump was a pederast.
sleepyegg
19d ago
Democracies are undermined in the long term by unassimilated ethnic or religious minorities which vote for political parties that promise them material benefits at public expense.
Some small degree of ethnic or religious differences is sustainable in a democracy, but in general democracies provide better governance with a population that has one dominant ethnicity and one dominant religion. See Taiwan, Japan, and most of the successful and stable Euro democracies.
sleepyegg
19d ago
Liberia is closer to voluntary self-deportation. I meant a two state solution in carving off multiple black belt US states and giving them autonomy except in foreign policy. Something like Catalonia within Spain.
I think the window for doing this sailed a long time ago though. It sailed, hit an iceberg, and lays forlorn at the bottom of the ocean.
sleepyegg
19d ago
I meant to include that, yes, fixing immigration first is an obvious prerequisite. It makes no sense to raise taxes to emigrate one person and then let in ten more afterwards, plus spouses and family reunification who will also be a net drain on society in one generation.
sleepyegg
20d ago
Actually a workable solution, and I'd support raising taxes to pay for this in the short term. Perhaps the self-deportation incentives were a trial run of this.
Baby steps to let the policy gain social acceptance, then we can talk about involuntarily deporting convicted offenders.
sleepyegg
20d ago
Interesting, thanks. Yeah, the US was probably overflowing with so much anticommunist juice that it ended up spilling through the anglosphere, so I guess we'll never know outside of alt-history fanfiction.
sleepyegg
20d ago
A two-state solution? Heh.
I'm all for it, by the way. But implementation seems impossible.
sleepyegg
20d ago
I don't dispute the contributions of Black Americans or their claimed birthright. But I dislike living near the urban blacks who commit disproportionally high rates of murder and physical violence compared to every other ethnic/racial group on earth. If the US is the birthright of blacks, they should stop treating their birthright as a diaper for everyone else to clean up for them.
And to be clear, it's not all blacks that are like this obviously, and all the blacks posting on here would probably be good neighbors. Just a statistically significant minority of blacks are ruining it for everyone, so much so that deporting all blacks becomes a latent desire.
If you haven't tried the Xpiratez mod for original XCOM, you should take a look at it. I've always played Ironman on the second easiest difficulty on Xpiratez and it still destroys me over 3-4 long campaigns, as in in-game years.
https://www.moddb.com/mods/x-piratez
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