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Culture War Roundup for the week of April 28, 2025

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won't change the basic fact that "this pile of stuff is mine and no you can't have it, or take it, or claim it by right of necessity" is what everyone feels from the time they're two years old onwards.

So true. But why stop there? Are you denying that we can't overcome instinct and learn beyond it? That we're incapable of doing otherwise? That infantile possessiveness is as good as it gets? We can't learn to share? We can't learn to rise above narcissism and survivalism? Not sure what you're saying there, cuz how it reads is kinda ridiculous.

If you're just going "it's not my job to educate you" about any possible insight you might have had around "how can we do this differently?", then I'm going to suggest you did not, in fact, have any useful insight and thus we can all ignore your shower thoughts.

Right you are, it's absolutely not my job to educate you. And that seems to have gotten your goat. That's not my problem. BTW, suggest all you like. You'd be wrong. Ignore me at will, be my guest. I didn't twist your arm and force you to opine. Methinks you protest too much for shower thoughts.

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I'm sure you think Very Deep Thinks but if you're coming on here, you are sort of expected to put forward an argument for why your Very Deep Thinks are thunk properly, not just "hey does anyone else think this is all crap? yeah me too, and I know a better way, but uh can't talk bye now!"

I take it back, you are absolutely the highest caliber troll this forum has ever seen. It's a simple strategy: don't call a deer a horse, simply say that the deer is not a deer and that you've figured out what the deer really is. The kind of person who posts on this forum is simply unable to resist trying to convince you that the deer is, in fact, a deer. And the master stroke: since you are not staking out a position, it isn't necessary to marshal any arguments. Sophistry alone is enough to keep the thread going indefinitely.

I kneel.