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Culture War Roundup for the week of October 3, 2022

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and we end up with a left-leaning community which gets along smoothly.

Left-leaning communities are also notorious for engaging in circular firing squads over being insufficiently pious.

They're also notorious for ham-fisted censorship drives over pet causes that cause mass exodus of users. Remember gamergate ? Well most of the people who were pissed with moderation re: the BPD slut who shall not be named weren't right-leaning. It was mostly random gamers, centrist or left leaning.

Really, they're well known for being very ban happy. Consider e.g. Resetera, one of the left-leaning gaming forums.

re: the BPD slut who shall not be named

Yeah, look. One of the advantages of moving here is that we no longer have to use "***" or "who-shall-not-be-named" evasions, so if you want to talk about someone, just talk about them, by name, rather than flinging epithets.

Insulting public figures is permissible to a point, but just calling someone a "BPD slut" is not a quality contribution to the discourse. If you think Zoe Quinn's alleged BPD or sluttiness is pertinent, go ahead and talk about it, but not just because you think this is a place where throwing random put-downs at your enemies is cool.

As far as I'm aware, the whole affair blew up because of her BPD & slutty behavior. World would never have learned the allegations that she had sex with people reviewing games had she not cheated on and lied to her boyfriend. Clarification: and because of the excessive nature of the cheating, he got so angry he wrote a very long very salty exposé he posted online, where it still is, which set off the whole scandal.

Anyone with a brain knew gaming journalism was dirty - I've read similar complaints in late 1990s, but it was usually boring stuff related to advertising income, access that few cared about, etc.

This salacious interlude and the coordinated censorship blew the arrangement up for good. Now as I understand gaming journalists are mostly irrelevant, and various amateur reviewers or streamers matter far more.

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clarification added

It's also not in the interest of clarity. I wouldn't have known who "the BPD slut" is supposed to be - I'd have to (look up Gamergate and) take a guess from context. If a name is used instead, I either know who is being referred to or can easily look it up.