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A mixed-color group of high school footballers was going to toilet-paper the house of a girl on the same cul-de-sac as the school athletic director. Seems the house had been TP'd at least once already, and cars may or may not have been egged, during the school's homecoming week shenanigans. When the group pulled into the circle, dad was already in the yard, with what I'm guessing was one of these but may have been one of these. Adults step out in front of the kids' jeep, wave them down, tell them to turn the car off and maybe get out, maybe get on the ground. Maybe the torch gets pointed at them, and they definitely get cussed out. The athletic director intervenes, speaks quietly to the kids (per the recording described in the police report, final section), and they are leave in less than three minutes.
Of course, it's suspected that this is racially motivated, despite it being (it seems) a white kid driving the Jeep. (EDIT: I was wrong about who was driving, as pointed out below by /u/Gdanning) I guess had the other four individuals also been white, Mr. Kolar would have put away his torch and enjoyed watching people toilet paper his house? Or perhaps that neighbors don't mind people hauling ass through the cul-de-sac as long as there aren't colored folks in the car? I really don't know. But the AD will probably lose his job behind the deal.
https://madison365.com/it-was-scary-athletes-parents-call-for-firing-of-baraboo-athletic-director-criminal-charges-for-others-in-vigilante-incident/
I can't tell reading the police report why the officer involved chose to arrest three people when only one was waving a torch around. It came off very much like "fuck it, arrest everyone and sort it out later" which I certainly would hope is not the case.
Also, based on the self described actions of that AD in the police report, there's no fucking way he should lose his job. He shouldn't even have been arrested. Granted he's biased, but so are the kids who said he did anything other than try to defuse the situation. Between irresponsible teenagers who think it's acceptable to destroy property and a respectable adult, I will believe the adult every time.
Maybe I was primed (by your post) to read this in a certain way, but that report really came off as "teenagers make trouble but are somehow the victims here, punish the adults who tried to stand up to them". Which is kind of mind blowing to me.
The neighbors audio recording described at the very end supports the guy's (AD's) story, too. He's said to be talking softly, not telling, and not using profanity. That officer takes a bit of a swipe at the detectives who were supposed to find video, heh.
I think it's amusing that some of the kids say they weren't going there to TP but only to look at how bad the house had been "got", and another kid is like, "Man, it happened so fast we hadn't even opened our toilet paper yet!"
@Gdanning Please do not injure yourself when you facepalm; I'm sure this brings back memories of the thousand-yard stare variety.
I'm afraid I am going to have to ask you to clarify what you are referring to.
Ah, nothing specific; I figured that you've had any number of experiences of the "please exercise your right to remain silent, why did you have to talk..." variety.
True. But nothing compares to the many, many jailhouse phone call transcripts in which the suspect's discussion with his girlfriend re how, when, where and why he committed the crime is interspersed, every 30 seconds, with automated announcement warning that the conversation is being recorded and can be used in court.
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Many such cases. Similar to the Oberlin bakery.
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