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Culture War Roundup for the week of October 10, 2022

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My dad is twenty years older than that. He just took care of himself rather than expecting thousands of other people to lose their jobs and not speak to each other in an entirely symbolic effort to protect him.

Not that he's ever particularly social in the first place, really... Not sure he even noticed anything different:

"Sorry, I don't eat at restaurants"

"Oh, because of Corona?"

"No, all their other beers are terrible too"

It's very challenging to take care of yourself without regularly being within six feet of many other humans.

Sorry you're being downvoted, but it really is trivial for an elderly person who doesn't have constant doctor appointments to virtually eliminate their risk. And there's very little other people could do that would complement those precautions rather than substitute for them, no matter how much effort the general public put in; all restaurants being shut down by public order doesn't give any extra help to an ancient who has already sensibly decided not to go to restaurants.

The whole thing was a generalized guilt trip intended to make people suffer pointlessly so they felt like "part of the cause"

I guess it depends on how used you are to ordering online? A lot of the risk area is shops.

If you're living somewhere with lots of foot traffic you also can't go anywhere, though that wasn't the case for me.

Even the Great Barrington Declaration called for devoting resources to help isolate the elderly while everyone else moved on, and not just leave the elderly to figure it out or not whatever.

Yeah, throwing all policy weight behind that would have actually done something at a relatively trivial cost.