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naraburns  nihil supernum  1yr ago (text post)   3604 thread views

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Anyone got some recommended guides to male fashion? I don't think I dress terribly but it seems like something that it would pay to know more about.

I put absolutely no more thought into fashion than I have to. Because I'm heterosexual, hah.

These two heuristics should serve you well.

  • Well fitting. This does the lions share of whether clothing looks good on your or not. There are many guides online on how to asses this.

  • Be Generic. Min-Max the number of people you turn on/off with your choice of fashion. Some group might really like some specific kind of fashion but that comes at a cost of other groups disliking that.

  • Don't overthink it. Fashion is what women and gays compete with each other with, if you are a man into women, you don't need to go galaxy brained on this. As for websites and guides, I remember AskMen.com used to have relatively decent no bullshit guides. The last time I browsed that website was before 2016 so they might have gone woke in the meanwhile, but that shouldn't matter too much.

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