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naraburns  nihil supernum  2yr ago (text post)   4683 thread views

Small-Scale Question Sunday for October 30, 2022

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Does anyone have any non incel/pua advice/resources at getting better at flirting (or otherwise improving one’s “game”). I recently moved to a new city where I have been trying to meet someone on Hinge, and while I feel like I get a reasonable number of matches I just think I must be really bad at the whole “texting long enough to get her to actually go on a date” phase of these conversations.

I’m also not sure what to reasonably expect in terms of reply rates. In the last month I get about 3 matches a week with people I would like to go on dates with. Of these two people agreed to meet up (although one ultimately stood me up, I’ve never actually had that happen before although I’m guessing that just happens a lot with online dating).

I'm fucking fascinated by this. Is it a real app? Has anybody actually used it? The website looks so fake it hurts, I think they literally photoshopped in the baby.

I tried googling it and all that came up was their own twitter account, which doesn't seem to have any user experiences to share. Has this app successfully beaten the problems The Right Stuff had with attracting literally any women?

Definitely worth a visit for the cringe factor. I too am looking for a model to live in my mansion and bear me 5 children in rapid succession. I just need to know if her estimated IQ meets my requirements.

Like, why did they even photoshop in the baby? There are already FOUR young children in the picture.

Like, why did they even photoshop in the baby? There are already FOUR young children in the picture.

To let you know that your model wife still puts out after the first four kids, if you find her on THIS app.

But like, I'm way way outside the target demographic for this, so maybe it's not meant for me.

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