The Wednesday Wellness threads are meant to encourage users to ask for and provide advice and motivation to improve their lives. It isn't intended as a 'containment thread' and any content which could go here could instead be posted in its own thread. You could post:
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Requests for advice and / or encouragement. On basically any topic and for any scale of problem.
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Updates to let us know how you are doing. This provides valuable feedback on past advice / encouragement and will hopefully make people feel a little more motivated to follow through. If you want to be reminded to post your update, see the post titled 'update reminders', below.
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Advice. This can be in response to a request for advice or just something that you think could be generally useful for many people here.
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Encouragement. Probably best directed at specific users, but if you feel like just encouraging people in general I don't think anyone is going to object. I don't think I really need to say this, but just to be clear; encouragement should have a generally positive tone and not shame people (if people feel that shame might be an effective tool for motivating people, please discuss this so we can form a group consensus on how to use it rather than just trying it).
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Good lord I’m jealous. Sounds like an incredibly nice life you got there friend.
No worries, I definitely understand that things aren't all peaches and roses and a high-paying job isn't the end all be-all. I don't envy your super high paying job nearly as much as the fact that you have an in demand skillset (programming) that you seem to be extremely talented at and actually enjoy.
The way I see it you could easily leave your high paying job and get a job making 150k or so, but being much more satisfied with your life and having a better balance. That's what I would do in your shoes. Unfortunately I don't have that skillset and can't enjoy coding so I'm stuck doing jobs I don't like for far less money than you.
Anyway, hope you find what you are looking for.
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