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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 14, 2022

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Frankly the OP's complaint really only makes sense to me if one starts with the conception of porn as some sort of "positive right" IE that we are owed validation/satisfaction and that declining to participate is on the same level as a personal attack.

The right is not to the porn, it's to the ability to make consensual legal transactions freely. Which has historically been true because there was rarely a required middleman to make consensual legal transactions until recently. So it's a relatively unprecedented situations worthy of being considered without crude analogies.

It's the same basic impulse as that behind those transsexuals who sued the cake shop

doesn't really matter but it was a gay couple, not transsexuals.

it was a gay couple, not transsexuals.

Unsurprisingly there was a second case to harass the same baker.

He'll be fighting lawsuits and prosecutions from the Colorado government until he dies, and nobody will even think of counter-attacking to ruin his harassers.

Sometimes you really do just need to admire the pure spite these people operate on. But I imagine the lawyers are running the show now and the owner is probably well compensated with conservative lawyer money.

But I imagine the lawyers are running the show now and the owner is probably well compensated with conservative lawyer money

Where does such things come from?

People who want to set judicial precedents, same place but opposite side that wants to create the opposite precedent.