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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 14, 2022

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I don't see where in those quoted passages you're getting a message like "Shut up and drink the $2000 wine, its good because the label says it is." It's more like "I personally am one of those people who will shut up and drink the $2,000 wine and think it's good because the label says it is. Other people might feel differently, but that doesn't make my experience of enjoying the goodness of that wine any less real." So for Rings of Power, the analogous message to me would be something like:

I personally will ignore the actual show, its writing, CGI, etc deficiencies because it has the label (and the Objectively Correct Moral Message), and that label (and Message) has history and work behind it. This doesn't mean that anyone else has to see it this way, just that my view of this show's goodness is genuine and not fake.

FWIW, I'm one of those people whose palette thinks that the quality of wine caps out at around $20/bottle.

That's more charitable than OP, but I think the message of my comment is more like: "Some groups of people enjoy certain things. They're allowed to do that, just like I'm allowed to enjoy things that I like. If the reasons I like the things I like are unintelligible to you, that doesn't indicate that I'm wrong or my taste is fake or I'm a bad person or the producer of the things I like is a bad person; it merely indicates that we don't share tastes or possibly other affiliations that likely correlate with taste." If someone is experiencing joy at engaging with something, who is anyone else to tell them that they are not enjoying it? People are allowed to have fun. If you don't enjoy it, shrug and move on. De gustibus non est disputandum. Some people prefer the cucumber pickled.

There are definitely cases in which provenance of a piece of literature matters to me. I'm more interested to read Homer than I ever would be to read an AI pastiche of Homeric poetry, for a million reasons that if I have to explain them aren't worth the effort.

I haven't watched RoP, or The Hobbit movies, or any of the Marvel films; I'm fairly certain I wouldn't enjoy them from what I've heard of them so I avoid them. If other people enjoy them, that's their business, not mine; but it might indicate we won't get along. I can't imagine being stuck dating a Disney Adult. If someone else liked the Silmarillion, we'll probably get along.

@anti_dan if you're going to quote me unfavorably have the decency to tag me.

Yeah, how does one do that?