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I think it's it a mistake to think they are lying and then say you know their true motives they themselves are unaware of.
A simpler explanation is this. You agree that a woman who uses public transit everyday will at some point experience harassment.
Some women will be unfortunate enough for this to occur in their first few rides.
Some of those women will then decide not to ride public transit anymore. This does not mean that the rate of harassment is high enough that every woman is likely to be harassed in 5 or 10 rides. But some will.
I also think it's perfectly plausible you just haven't noticed the harassment. You only see a small slice of the daily commute and not all forms of harassment are going catch your eye.
Ex, a woman gets off your train, to get the next, to avoid a man, and the man follows her. Your not going to see that, from your perspective it will just look like two people, among others getting off your train at the same station.
No, I agree that it’s plausible, although again it strikes me as still a low-probability event.
This would make sense if I hadn’t ridden the train thousands of times, at every imaginable hour (including after midnight) and in every part of the city, no matter how sketchy. How am I not observing it if it is happening this often and to every women to whom I have spoken about it?
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