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Small-Scale Question Sunday for May 18, 2025

Do you have a dumb question that you're kind of embarrassed to ask in the main thread? Is there something you're just not sure about?

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Which app are you on where this keeps happening? I've used the apps before and, as I said below, I haven't had any problems remotely similar to what you describe. I've had women cancel dates at the last minute before, but they've always rescheduled and gone off eventually. And what are the rest of the conversations about? If you're keeping it to normal topics like sports, hobbies, politics, movies, music, etc. and she suddenly shifts it to how good looking you are and how she wants to fuck you, I can understand why you'd want to stick with it, but if the entire conversation is nothing but flirty banter then you should seriously question whether the woman is worth pursuing.

I'd recommend sticking to educated women with good professional jobs who are looking for long-term relationships and whose profiles are reasonably filled out and suggest that they already have rich, fulfilling lives without you around. These women tend to be much more stable than the hairdressers and retail clerks of the world who lead crappy, uninteresting lives, have no discernable hobbies or interests, and are looking for a guy for sex, or validation, or because they don't otherwise have a social life. I wouldn't even mention sex in a conversation until it's reached a certain stage, i.e. home plate.

This isn't on an app.

Well, then I guess you sure know how to pick 'em.