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What exactly are you looking for here?
Do you just want people to tell you that it's hopeless? Very well then. It is hopeless. I agree that you should give up hope. Do with this what you will.
If this is a prelude to arguing for certain policy proposals, then it would be more interesting if you made the case for those policies directly, instead of gesturing angrily at the stats and insisting that something (what, exactly?) must be done.
Stack guns and ammo, get multiple passports and generally prepare for the strife that inevitably comes from cultures rife with men that have nothing to lose.
There is nothing else to do because any solution would undermine the status quo too much.
I see this online a lot lately: supposedly all these "tfw no girlfriend" guys are going to rise up. "You are in danger!"
No. These guys are, frankly ,not the warfighting kind. They'll jack off to porn and seethe and imagine burning it all down (and you'll get the occasional Elliott Rodgers) but there's no movement of dateless men ready to "do something" and even a more political Andrew Tate probably couldn't move them to that kind of action.
You misunderstand. There is not going to be the prophetized "beta uprising" where wizards use their magical powers to enslave normies, that's not how things work.
Society is just slowly going to become lower and lower trust until it becomes an incomprehensible mess and collapses under its own weight. Incels are not going to do something, they're going to do nothing. And your society needs a whole load of something to work.
Tate is a good symptom of this actually. Note that he does not advocate people engage in pro-social behavior and become pillars of their community, only in looting. Get your own, pump and dump, get the lambo, evade taxes, scam others. Because if society is not willing to offer a fair deal, that's all that's left.
There's no talk of marrying and having children and buying a house and paying into your retirement fund here.
You will see violence. But that's because decay and lawlessness invite it. "These guys" are not going to go out and harm people for the most part, but they won't stop those that would.
I see. That's a more depressing prediction, though perhaps more realistic.
I don't see dateless men being a significant factor in that, though. I don't actually believe incels are a factor at all, other than online.
All the men who maintain your civilization are human beings with emotional needs you know. Large proportions of them having no stake in the future is going to have some consequences. Whether you believe it or not doesn't matter.
There's a reason the people of the past thought so well of marriage that they literally made it sacred. We're just going to painfully relearn why.
The large proportion of men whom I am concerned about not having a stake in our civilization are mostly not incels.
If so I think either you have no sense of the numbers for celibacy now, or you're just refusing to believe them. Might want to read those articles linked upthread. It's getting bad. Real bad.
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If it is indeed hopeless, than we can at long last dispense with the concept of building anything for the future. Loot what you can, while you can.
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