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Culture War Roundup for the week of November 28, 2022

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Not a direct response but I'm surprised at the many anti-male responses at this. It's like even themotte can't see women as agentic individual with, at least, a small part of responsibility about the situation: all the effort must be on the male individual and if he does not succeed in satisfying the demand he deserves the pain of failure. Is there a name to this phenomenon or a theory why it happens?

The Motte is probably 99% XY Chromosomal and it's generally more productive as a male to sit down and think 'how can I play in this meta' as opposed to 'waah the meta is fucked due to certain activities'.

99% is way too high, both by comparison to rationalists / other smart internet spaces and by posters who've said they're women, although obviously it's heavily male-biased.

I did specify chromosomes for a reason. Still would expect 90%+ & to further that that like the vast majority of posts/comments will be coming from that side of the fence.

"Society"

It happens because neither men nor women want women to be responsible for shit.

Hyperagency for men and Hypoagency for women were terms originally developed in the feminist sphere. They were then broadly co-opted by the Men's Rights sphere where they were applied in new and creative ways such as pointing out gender differences in prison sentencing for similar crimes.

Edit: Some quick definitions of these terms can be found here. Feminists complaining that the term was 'misappropriated' here. Further exploration from a MRA is here.