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Yeah, she acted as a porn actress employed by a well know porn director in his porn film. What else would you call her other than a porn actress? If somebody murdered "grand total of one person" or somebody only burglarized "grand total of one house" - then such a criminal would only be "technically" murderer/burglar? What is this. How would you call her? I am genuinely curious.
PS: As a wise person once said - you may have built thousand bridges and only sucked one dick. But forever more, you are not going to be known as a bridgebuilder, but rather as a dicksucker.
The original version of this meme involved goats. I don't think a guy sucking dick is sufficiently transgressive to trigger the meme, and a girl sucking dick (you don't specify sex, and it doesn't matter for the goat version) definitely isn't, even in cultures where hetero oral is taboo. Among the men who metaphorically "built a thousand bridges" while sucking dick on the side, the only one who is more famous as a dicksucker than a bridgebuilder is Oscar Wilde, and only because he sued the Marquess of Queensbury.
Random question to @georgioz - where in the English-speaking world are you where "dicksucker" is more idiomatic than "cocksucker"?
"Cocksucker" is an idiomatic insult that usually is not a synonym of "sucker of penises". "Dicksucker", in contrast, has no idiomatic meaning, and therefore can be used as a synonym of "sucker of penises".
Yeah but that’s the whole point of the insult — the one act of cocksucking makes someone a cocksucker (ie a bad thing).
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I’ll not call her an actress for three reasons.
She ‘acted’ in something that cannot even reasonably be called a porn movie, to the extent that those even exist anymore. Appearing only in one casting video means you didn’t get cast and thus you aren't an actress.
Actresses in the everyday sense of the word are professionals with the corresponding studies and training. This she ain’t.
If her activity counts as acting, we might as well call all prostitutes and escorts actresses, which clearly belongs to the realm of nonsense.
'Porner' is appropriate.
I don't want to argue definitions for what counts as acting, but at the risk of stating the obvious I'll point out that a pretty sizable portion of 'casting' porn is fake and scripted (albeit usually pretty lackluster scripts); for a sizable majority, actresses and actors have already been cast and contracted before they're brought on-couch, so to speak.
That's most overt in the United States, where the 2257 requirements make screwing around too much with 'reality' porn legally risky. It's possible to work around these matters, but for every successful model you get one that results in federal charges and massive civil suits. But where Hungary and Woodman specifically has a reputation as skeezy and coercive even by the low standards of gonzo porn stars, the allegations against him largely involve deviations from the script or pre-negotiated discussions (cw: textual discussions of sex, including sexual assault, degradation-focused watersports).
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