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Culture War Roundup for the week of December 19, 2022

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OTOH it's easier for me to give 5/5 than 10/10, funny how it works.

I wonder if rideshare apps operating in other countries eventually learn to adjust their scales culturally or if people using the rideshare apps tend to have the sort of cultural awareness to fix their own behavior to fit the company's expectation. The first would be more likely.

I instinctively almost never give 10/10 scores to anything, and appreciate it when companies that are really just wondering if service is good enough use a three point scale; I think it captures what they're looking for better (was it good enough? Was it so terrible I'll be complaining to everyone who will listen?)

I think the perfect-or-nothing attitude is well in effect in Russia, for what it's worth.

I remember a girl I know telling an internet stranger off for giving one of her photos on OK.ru less than 5. She explained that only two marks were allowed: 5/5 or no vote. You wouldn't tell a girl she's pretty, but not very pretty, so why would you do the same online?

Zuck was smarter, and Facebook only lets you "like" stuff.

This is quite an accurate attitude, in my experience, even on a broader grading scale. Russian neighbourhoods tend to be either "horrendous dystopian mudpit" or "super-rich paradise". Usually the former. Russian businesses tend to be either amazingly conscientious and accommodating, or pathologically dishonest and uncaring.

Also: https://youtube.com/shorts/xikDWOtOOiw