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Sometimes I dislike stuff that may or may not break the rules, and I don't much care for pinging the mods for every post out there. I did not start the rudeness here - and yes, soccer moms who hate 'he started it' are wrong.
Yeah, you know what? I gave you a mild warning to stop being obnoxious, and rather than accepting the admonishment and letting it go, you double and triple down until you're calling us "soccer moms" for enforcing the rules. "He started it" is absolutely not acceptable as an excuse and never has been, and you know this because you've been around for a while. And the comment you were responding to wasn't even rude, it was just a comment you didn't like.
I'm banning you for a day just because you felt the need to go that extra mile in being obnoxious.
got this comment (the modhatted admin comment by you) in the volunteer review page for some reason
Somebody reported it. It's not unusual for modhat comments to get reported by people who don't like the moderation.
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Obviously it's because it's bad and deserves a ban.
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