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Culture War Roundup for the week of August 11, 2025

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Uh, how common is gooning really?

Like regular masturbation, sure, real common. But I was under the impression gooning was some technologically driven different thing.

My understanding was that gooning is reserved for any particularly degenerate and indulgent forms of masturbation. Like when I think of a gooner, I think of someone for whom cranking it while looking at porn sitting in front of his computer doesn't work anymore, he needs to be watching 10 videos at once for hours on a multiscreen setup laying down in a reclining chair while vaping weed.

watching 10 videos at once for hours on a multiscreen setup laying down in a reclining chair while vaping weed.

I've always looked down on "gooning" as degeneracy of a high order but damn you made it sound kind of fun

I think I just miss smoking in the reclining chair I had before I moved out on my own

It is kind of fun. No multiscreen needed, just a weed vape, a laptop, 30+ tabs, and a few hours to kill.

It gets old pretty fast though (same with porn in general). I quit weed to get a better job and don't really miss it. Kind of a shame, because fake weed vapes are dirt cheap while getting bored and going to the bar 4+ nights a week gets expensive in a hurry such that I kind of need a side gig to help pay my bar tabs (Last time that happened it spiraled out of control such that I wound up being a bartender, a fun but very time and money intensive way to develop a friend group of mostly fucked up people.).

Funny, my impression is that it was a drug driven thing. People being high would explain the repetition, the weird descriptions of physical sensations and how long they go.

And I think that would place them on the far end of consumption habits.

Technically it means people keeping themselves aroused with porn without ejaculating for 30mins to hours

Gooning is a kind of self-pleasuring that revolves around entering a trance state (called the "goon") while watching multiple screens of adult content and avoiding climax by edging. There you go.

Used also as a shorthand for people who use porn to jerkoff widely in excess of what nature would allow.

Wow, so "gooning" is like synonymous with "edging"? In that case I'm not sure if I've ever "gooned".

You can edge without gooning, but you cannot goon without edging

So say skibidi

I think the trance state is the main criterion. I doubt edging is required.

My question was about prevalence. Yes, any 14 year old has probably figured out regular masturbation but I thought gooning was something different.

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